Lots of personal development advocates looking within for what you want to experience. Want to feel respected and loved? Respect and love yourself first.
And it’s totally true that life is a mirror and it reflects back to us something that needs to change within…..BUT It’s not always as easy as ‘remember a time when you felt….’
What if you’ve never felt want you desire to feel? What if your life experiences have caused you to shut down those feelings to the extent you no longer think you have them?
Sometimes we have to ‘try on’ other people’s feelings and draw from them what we want to feel so we get to experience it. Now I’m not talking about being an energy vampire (where you literally suck the energy and life out of someone to fulfil your own needs) or being co-dependant (where your existence is dependent on the other person), but taking cues from them and allowing yourself to notice the feelings that transpire from that.
We’ve all had the experience of being in the room with someone really confident and outgoing and getting caught up in the energy (often when I was growing up this led to many reckless – and hugely fun – moments). Those time when you’ve had a blast and felt great purely because the people you were with had that energy around them – that’s what I’m talking about.
Find a person (or group of people) that you can associate yourself with. Spend time with them either in person or virtually. Start experiencing and noticing how those energies feel in your body and then you can use that as a platform for triggering those feelings in yourself and allowing them to grow within you and become your own.
And once you own these feelings, the world opens up. Try it for yourself
If you need some help with any of the subjects I talk about, let me know and we can have a conversation; I may be able to give you a quick tip or two to get you on the right track!
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Have a fabulous week!
With love & respect